Trust is crucial in building a healthy and successful relationship. After all, it goes hand in hand with honesty, open communication, respect, and other essential parts of creating a meaningful bond between partners. But in some cases, having confidence in your soulmate can seem challenging. Especially when you spot potential red flags that indicate they may not be as trustworthy as you initially believed.
This seems to be precisely where Redditor safegfthrowaway found herself in. A few days ago, this 32-year-old woman reached out to the “Am I The A-Hole” community to ask for perspective after her boyfriend put her in a rather uncomfortable situation. Being a gemologist, she has acquired quite the collection of precious metals and stones that she stores under lock and key — in a safe only she knows the code for.
Immediately after moving in with her, the man started insisting on access to the safe. “Not to put anything in it, but he says because we are living together now, I should trust him and give him the code,” the user recounted. Naturally, this raised some questions for the woman who felt the tension rising in their partnership. Read on for the full story below and weigh in on the incident in the comments.
This gemologist recently shared how her boyfriend demanded access to her safe filled with precious stones worth 6 figures he apparently has “no interest in”
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Feeling some tension building up in the relationship, she asked the internet for perspective
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Later on, the woman clarified a few details and added more updates to the story
Redditors unanimously deemed the user had every right to get suspicious, here’s what they had to say
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