Family is pretty much the most significant thing that our life has to offer. It gives us a sense of belonging; it allows us to feel safe and content. Our loved ones teach us the most valuable lessons and prepare us for the big-big world.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a carefree teen or a 60-year-old office worker – having a great connection with your family will promise you your well-being and secure you with that everlasting support.
However, in order to have that strong bond, it’s vital to set and maintain healthy boundaries. Some folks often take the relationship to an absurd extent and even use it for their own benefit, where we end up feeling intruded upon or taken for granted.
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Putting other people’s needs above yours is never a good idea, even if it’s your family member
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“AITA for telling my brother and SIL to find alternate childcare?” – this online user took it to one of the most cherished subreddits to reveal a story about the altercation she had with her brother and his wife. The post has managed to receive over 17K upvotes, as well as 1.2K worth of comments debating about the audacity that some folks have.
Woman wonders if she’s wrong for telling her brother and SIL to find an alternative childcare option, as watching their kids greatly affects her job performance
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The author started her post off with an introduction; she’s a 41-year-old woman and has a brother who’s slightly younger. The brother is married and has two young kids, while the OP and her husband are childfree by choice.
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The woman then revealed that she has no issues with children, it was just a personal choice not to have any herself and that she and her husband enjoy being aunt and uncle to her brother’s offspring. Moreover, the couple doesn’t mind having the woman’s niece and nephew over when her brother and sister-in-law are in need of a break, though they do love the peace and quiet so they don’t do it too often.
Sadly, her brother had some issues at his company which resulted in his wife getting a part-time job so that she could help him out with the bills. Their children, at the time, were attending school online, which means that the spouses needed some help with childcare.
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Later on, the author’s brother wondered if the couple would be willing to watch his kids during the day since they’re both working from home. Naturally, the woman and her husband agreed but only with the promise that the babysitting is going to be a temporary thing and until they’ll be able to find an alternative childcare option. Well, it all went on for 4 months.
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The woman then revealed that she is expecting a massive trial and has been working for 80 hours a week to prepare. She spoke to her sister-in-law and brother on multiple occasions and kept informing them that it was getting practically impossible to manage the kids and work at the same time.
The OP decided to put an end to this situation when the kids interrupted her meeting with a client by arguing over a TV remote, and when their mother came to pick them up, the woman gave her two weeks to find someone else. She revealed that she cannot watch the children anymore as it is affecting her job performance, and it is very unfair for them to put her in this position.
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As expected, the sister-in-law went absolutely ballistic and called the OP selfish, while also saying that she’s uncaring. Later on, her brother called and scolded her for not having any compassion for them. The woman tried to resolve the issue by saying that if it has anything to do with their finances she’s more than willing to chip in for a nanny or an au pair – however, the man didn’t handle the suggestion well and accused her of “flaunting her wealth”.
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Time goes by, sister-in-law ended up putting in her two weeks’ notice, and the brother, once again, has added more fuel to the fire and said that if his family ends up homeless – that’ll be all on her.
Fellow Redditors were dumbfounded by the audacity of the parents
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