The subreddit ‘Am I The A**hole‘ describes itself as a “catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that’s been bothering you.” With 1.2 million followers it has become an active and fascinating place for discussing ethical dilemmas of all kinds, as we continue the ancient human tradition of trying to figure out what is wrong and what is right.
This particular scenario is a difficult one as it forces a well-meaning guy to choose between hurting his beloved brother’s feelings, or potentially ruining his own wedding – something that means the world to his fiancee.
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The OP seems to want only the best for all concerned and is trying to avoid hurting anybody. In the end, he made his choice based on what would cause the least damage – but he’s still unsure if he did the right thing. In an attempt to assuage his guilt he asked the moral arbiters of the community what they thought:
“Am I the a**hole here?”
A tough one indeed! However, it appears that there is a strong consensus that the OP did the right thing here, and there are definitely more appropriate times for brother to make his announcement.
What do you think? Did OP do the right thing here? Scroll down to read the discussion below and let us know your thoughts in the comments!
Here’s how people reacted to the dilemma
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